A teacher noticed that a boy seemed a bit off, so he approached him and inquired if anything was on his mind. The boy confided that earlier, when arguing about an issue with a classmate, he had not been respectful of his peer’s views. Instead, he had belittled them. When the teacher asked this boy how that had made him feel and what he could do to make it better, the boy replied, “Not good,” and “I can go back to him, apologize, and let him know that even if I don’t agree with him, he has a right to his views, and I respect them.” Raising and educating the next generation of boys who aspire to be good men is an exercise in optimism. As educators and parents, we are in the “business of hope." Future oriented, we are always thinking about how best to educate boys not for yesterday, but for today and tomorrow. For tomorrow’s world, we know our boys will need not only to master the three Rs (reading, writing and arithmetic) but also several Cs - those skills that rest entirely withi...
A Saint David’s seventh grader stands before a group of his peers in Chapel. He talks about an "Agent for the Good" he has researched—someone, often courageous, who has had a positive impact on others. In this particular case, it is the World War II Hero Desmond Doss, who saw the importance of “fighting” for his country but refused to carry a weapon or kill an enemy soldier in combat because of his deeply held convictions. The seventh grader connects Doss' legacy serving as a medic and saving the lives of his comrades and his enemy with something personal from his own life and with a value drawn from our school's mission. There is no rustling in the pews. The boys reflect on the message of this Chapel and how it might be applied to their own lives. Every boy in this quiet space is connected, bonded with his schoolmates, and feels a part of something bigger than himself. He knows too, that one day, he will be that boy. The power of spirituality. It is no secret that ...